I only ever met her twice before she became my stalker. On our first encounter, she recognised me as being on the same dating website as her, and so introduced herself ? and there was nothing, no thousand?yard stare, no deranged cackling, to tip me off that she was in any way disturbed. The second time we met, I slept with her. And then, having known me for all of a few hours, she told me that she loved me. I laughed it off then.

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